Rise Above the Naysayers

Rise Above the Naysayers and Live Your Life to the Fullest

The world is full of naysayers. There’s always someone trying to bring you down. Many of them are trying to be helpful, but it doesn’t feel that way. If you allow naysayers to discourage you, your life will be much less than you deserve. Learn how to deal with these negative people once and for all.

Follow these strategies to overcome the naysayers in your life:

  1. Keep your aspirations to yourself. It’s commonly suggested that you make your goals public. The fear of embarrassing yourself is supposed to be motivating. But several studies have shown that announcing your goals isn’t always a good strategy.

  • The bigger your goals, the more likely you are to receive negative comments. If you’re sensitive to the criticism of others, this type of feedback can derail your efforts.

  • Of course, you can inform everyone when you’ve accomplished your goal!

  1. Remind yourself of your positive qualities. If you’re starting to doubt yourself, remind yourself of your best qualities. Make a long list and focus on it until you’re feeling capable again. If you need help, get help from a supportive friend.

  2. Avoid taking it personally. When others are unnecessarily negative, it reveals more about them than it does about you. No one knows enough about your personal business to have an accurate opinion anyway.

  3. Keep your vision in mind. It’s easy to become discouraged when you’re on the receiving end of discouraging comments. Go back to the big picture and remind yourself of your goals. See in your mind how great the results will be. Imagine how satisfying it will be when you’re proven correct. Nothing is quite as sweet.

  4. Consider the source of the feedback. Are you trying to launch your own company? Criticism from someone that’s always had a corporate job isn’t valid. Unless the other person has accomplished your goal, consider their advice worthless. You wouldn’t take stock tips from a man living on a park bench. Most of the advice we receive is similar in value.

  • However, a mentor can be a valuable addition to your life. The right mentor will have accomplished your goal. Perhaps they even started from a similar point as you. Ideally, they’ll also be supportive and encouraging.

  1. Make a list of your greatest achievements. Write down every experience you’ve had that makes you feel successful. You’ve already done some amazing things. The naysayers in your life don’t know about most of those things. That’s just another reason why their opinions are irrelevant.

  1. Learn to ignore the noise. Have faith in yourself and avoid allowing others to control your thoughts or emotions.

  2. Smile. When you show others that you won’t be affected by their unkind words, they’ll eventually stop. Smiling will also improve your mood and lower your blood pressure. Smiling is also free.

  3. Rely on supportive people. We all have that friend that seems to think we can do anything. Instead of dealing with the naysayers, surround yourself with people that support your efforts and believe in you. The difference is staggering.

The naysayers will always be there. Every great achievement was preceded by numerous naysayers giving their two cents. You can’t allow others to derail your plans. Be confident that you can accomplish anything. Project your success into the future and remind yourself of your past successes.

home? At school? When you exert extra effort in doing things.

 

  1. Hang on to your dreams. They may dangle in there for a moment, but these little stars will be your driving force.

 

  1. Ignore those who try to destroy you. Don’t let other people to get the best of you. Stay out of toxic people – the kind of friends who hates to hear about your success.

 

  1. Just be yourself. The key to success is to be yourself. And the key to failure is to try to please everyone.

 

  1. Keep trying no matter how hard life may seem. When a person is motivated, eventually he sees a harsh life finally clearing out, paving the way to self-improvement.

 

  1. Learn to love your self. Now isn’t that easy?

 

  1. Make things happen. Motivation is when your dreams are put into work clothes.

 

  1. Never lie, cheat or steal. Always play a fair game.

 

  1. Open your eyes. People should learn the horse attitude and horse sense. They see things in 2 ways – how they want things to be, and how they should be.

 

  1. Practice makes perfect. Practice is about motivation. It lets us learn repertoire and ways on how can we recover from our mistakes.

 

  1. Quitters never win. And winners never quit. So, choose your fate – are you going to be a quitter? Or a winner?

 

  1. Ready yourself. Motivation is also about preparation. We must hear the little voice within us telling us to get started before others will get on their feet and try to push us around. Remember, it wasn’t raining when Noah build the ark.

 

  1. Stop procrastinating!

 

  1. Take control of your life. Discipline or self control jives synonymously with motivation. Both are key factors in self-improvement.

 

  1. Understand others. If you know very well how to talk, you should also learn how to listen. Yearn to understand first, and to be understood the second.

 

  1. Visualize it. Motivation without vision is like a boat on a dry land.

 

  1. Want it more than anything. Dreaming means believing. And to believe is something that is rooted out from the roots of motivation and self-improvement.

 

  1. X Factor is what will make you different from the others. When you are motivated, you tend to put on “extras” on your life like extra time for family, extra help at work, extra care for friends, and so on.

 

  1. You are unique. No one in this world looks, acts, or talks like you. Value your life and existence, because you’re just going to spend it once.

 

A.   Zero in on your dreams and go for it!!!

About the Author

Efren Maldonado Is a highly sought after educator, speaker and consultant with over 20 years of experience working with people and business organizations of various backgrounds. Efren is a very powerful and dynamic speaker and teacher who provides innovative powerful and proven tools for immediate use that create change in the lives of his audience while his teaching style keeps them captivated and wanting to know more!